HE kicks life forward!


He will start soon his 18th years. He is the one I always ask about then I speak with my parents. He is the one who comes to sleep with me then I am at my parents. He is always very good to me then I am home. It’s my cat PIKIS!



You may think he is just a cat, but he is the cat who inspires us more than any person in the world and let me tell you why!

From the very first moment he came into our lives he was already fighting, so he got the name PIKIS, which means “angry”. He wasn’t angry, but he used to come and fight with my Dad and every fight was starting from him getting angry and getting to the attack. Even though we were living in two bad rooms flat, but he always run around for few times to show how much he is capable of.
Soon, a year after, he was doing it with our dog and all he wanted to prove – he is the owner of the flat and nobody else may try to own it. Even my small bad has always been occupied by him, me and the dog just to prove he is the owner of everything in this flat.

Twelve years after and our dog passed away. For our surprise Pikis was sad for four months for another intruder who has just left his world. Believe it or not, his small heart was divided into 5 parts and he loved everybody in his apartments. 

Year after year he became a cat we loved so so much that he gave us much more than we could ever dreamed of. Of course he didn’t need to fight anymore for any corner in the flat, but he was always looking for the attention, so he got it every day more and more, just ways of getting it became annoying and have started to drive parents crazy, but I kept on saying: “Don’t say any bad word because one day he may not be here for any reason.” Believe it or not, but I felt with my heart something is going to happen and it did. For almost 10 days he couldn’t walk because of the stroke… 



You may know what consequences it can cause and we prayed the God he would recover. We brought him hundreds of kilometers away to show him for doctors. He was fed as he couldn’t keep his head up. He couldn’t do anything, just to open his eyes. Those 10 days were heart braking and painful, but for our surprise he started to walk! Can you imagine what does it cost for him, 17 years old cat? I have no idea either! One thing I know – he is a fighter I have learned so much from him.

I learned:
-        -   How much love can do;
-        - How much you can reach if you want to;
-       -   How much you must appreciate every moment with your beloved ones;
-        -  How painful it is just to think that one day he or she won’t be in this world;
-         - How important it is to say how much you love;
-        - How it is important to admire everybody who is next to you!...

Keep the list coming, because one day it might be stopped and you will regret how much haven’t been said. I call myself happy because Pikis always heard me saying how much I love him and I know he appreciated it, this is the main reason he still kicks the life forward.

YOURS,
Lina

LIST what do you WANT


Life is like Mohombi’s song – Bumpy ride! I love this song for the meaning it gives.


At least mine is. Recent two years of mine has been so interesting that I am still thinking: “Girl, you should start writing a book, just include lots of colors, because it is what makes your life so amazing!” Believe me or not, I have done so many changes, so many thoughts crossed my mind till I became who I am in a place I am right now, but this is not what I am going to talk about. This post is about The List. Why the List is so important? Very simple – it helps thing/s to materialize.

I should admit that for two years I pushed all the guys away, because I was hurt by one, so I wrote down for myself that any guy will never hurt me again. At least until I will let one into my heart. But at the beginning of 2014 I understood that I don’t want to be anymore “go away boys” girl, so I made a list called “My King is” with all advantages and disadvantages of him. The list you see below (in Lithuanian as I am the one) and I have started to feel the way I was already in the relationship with him. The next thing I did – I took an action to meet him. I realized I am the one who is not going to parties or clubs, most of my friends are busy and not matchmakers at all, so what could I do?

One day I was searching on the internet and all of the sudden I saw the site called “blind dating” and I signed for it. As funny as it sounds, it wasn’t the best thing to do, at least not in Lithuania! Anyway, I was happy I took this big step by myself, because as I was observing people at the event, just few came by themselves, others – with friends. Later on my friend came to visit me and she just said: “You know there is an app called ‘Tinder’, which is cool for meeting new people.” Two weeks later I remembered it and I tried it. What’s the result? In one week I managed to go to 5 blind dates, in one day I made 3! Unfortunately the 5th one was the last one – I met my King. I checked my list – he is just the way I wanted. Now, after 3 months, I am on one more challenge – to work on it and keep it right.



So WHAT you should do to get what you WANT?

- FIGURE out what you want;
·         - ANSWER the question WHY you want it;
·        -  LIST all good's and bad's;
·         - FEEL like you have it;
·         - TAKE an action and talk about it;
·         -  ADORE what you get or you will loose it.
The next thing I got in the same period – the new flat I had to find in two weeks. I had a short period to find it, so I made a list of it (second list in the picture), started talking that I am looking for the flat and in a few days I had it. 
BELIEVE it or not, it works the magic! I encourage you as all my people around to list all the things you want, to follow the list of actions I mentioned above and share your results with everybody, because I know you can have ANYTHING YOU WANT!

YOURS,
Lina


How to programme yourself fot the success!

Dear All,


It's been a while since the last post I uploaded and the reason was - I was miserable!
I believe a lot of people feels like that and I understand them totally.

I have been reading a lot of books of successful people. I attracted to my life a lot of successful people, but I didn't keep them in my life, because of all my negative thoughts in my mind, which I was responsible of.
Tonight probably something happened to me... I realized that if I am not going to figure out what I want from this life it will continue so I have started to come up with ideas. I won't share (sorry) on this post my ideas, but I promise soon enough you will hear about it, but now I want to share video with Carrie Green (very successful entrepreneur) talking about how she programmed herself for the success, because I believe it can help you as it helped for lots of other people.

Take a look, Ladies and Gentlemen, and don't forget to share what do you think!






Antony Robbins projektas Lietuvoje!

Išlaisvink savyje slypinčią galią!

Vienas garsiausių pasaulyje konsultantų, verslininkų, perkamiausių knygų “Neribota galia” ir “Pažadink savyje milžiną” autorius Antony Robbins yra įsitikinęs, kad mūsų gyvenimas yra sąlygotas mūsų pačių pasirinkimo. Jo įsitikinimu – valdžia ir galia – aukščiausia prasme – tai gebėjimas kurti tokštamus rezultatus ir tuo pat metu duoti naudą kitiems. Tai galimybė keisti savo gyvenimą, pačiam formuoti savo pasaulėžiūrą, pakreipti įvykius taip, kad aplinkybės eitų išvien su mumis, o ne prieš mus.
Kompanijos "Success Resources“ Europos plėtros departamento vadovė Asel Sydykova sako:  „Aš ne visuomet tikėjau, kad mes galim, o pabendravusi ir pasimokiusi iš Anthony Robbins, supratau, kad kiekvienas iš mūsų gali įveikti didžiausią dvejonę - save!" .
Išlaisvink savyje slypinčią galią!
Tai - naujas motyvacinis seminaras Lietuvoje remiantis motyvacijos guru Antony Robbins mokymų metodika. Jį ves vienos iš didžiausių pasaulyje mokymų kompanijos „Success Resources“, kuri tiesiogiai dirba su Tony Robbins, atstovė, lektorė, organizatorė ASel Sydykova. Tai 6 valandų renginys, pagrįstas Antony Robbins pasaulinio lygio programa : "Unleash the power within 2014“.
Ši programa,  populiari visame pasaulyje, jau GREITAI ir LIETUVOJE!
Jei norite būti pirmieji ir sužinoti daugiau informacijos apie greitai vyksiantį renginį, užpildykite išankstinės registracijos formą ir gaukite geriausią pasiūlymą pirmieji!


Keletas atsiliepimų iš jau įvykusio tokio pat renginio Taline:

Neįtikėtinai gerai suorganizuotas renginys. Viskas buvo apgalvota ir parengta. Man asmeniškai labai patiko. Tai buvo ta diena, kuri tam tikra prasme pakeitė mano gyvenimą. Gerda Roszarnik

Man patiko tai, kad ten buvo įvairių pratimų bei užduočių. Mes neturėjome tik sėdėti ir nuolat klausytis. Taip pat tai buvo gera proga susipažinti su įdomiais ir reikalingais žmonėmis. Sille Martma

Tai buvo įkvepiantis seminaras, kuris davė gerą progą pabėgti nuo kasdienybės. Gavau gerų patarimų ir motyvacijos, kaip išspręsti kasdieninius savo darbo reikalus. Aš tikiu, kad ši patirtis padės likti motyvuotai ilgą laiką. Külli Pedaste.

Aš gavau gerų idėjų, kurios pakeitė mano kasdienį mąstymą, padėjo išsikelti tikslus ir veikti! Pille Mutli.

http://www.saviugdosmokykla.lt/lt/projektai/43-antony-robbins-projektas-lietuvoje#.UsaTx_uSftO

"Why Do Anything?" by James Altucher

I don’t know.
I don’t want to do anything. Everyone says things like:
“I’m feeling stuck” Or, “I wish I knew what my purpose was” OR “I have lot’s of ideas, what do I do next?”.
Do nothing.

Why do you have to do anything?
I was at a conference this past week. I was very intimidated by the other attendees. At least four bestselling authors there. Another guy who gets millions of views on his beautiful videos. Another guy sells a billion dollars worth of clothes per year. And on and on.
I felt very lazy. I was very scared to be asked to speak there among these incredible people. They were all good looking also. It was a conference of good looking successful people. And me.
It suddenly hit me while I was there – all I want to do is lie in a big field and stare at the sky.
All day long. Or most of the day. I also like to read. I like to eat. Have sex. Sleep. I LOVE to sleep.
I felt like a big fake.
I like to submerge myself completely in water and just float for as long as I can hold my breath. I like to play online chess. I’ve played three games so far since starting this post. I’m an addict.
Sometimes I like to eavesdrop on conversations about relationships or sex.
At the conference someone showed a 3D printing machine. That seems like a real smart thing to invent. I’m not smart enough for that.
So check that off my list. Inventing the next generation 3D printing machines.
I read a book recently about people trying to get salt out of water. And other people that are genetically engineering algae from, I guess, stem cells, in order to get biofuel from them.
I’m really impressed. Those people must wake up in the morning and think to themselves, “I’m going to save the world today because I’m quite possibly the smartest person in the world.”
I’m not one of them. I want to see “The Hangover 3″ today. And laugh. Then maybe I will want to write something that will make people laugh.
I’d even want to be a standup comedian but it’s past my bedtime. I would actually prefer sleeping to being a standup comedian even though I really enjoy making people laugh.
Why do you have to do anything?
I get it – we have to pay the bills. We all do. But here’s the problem:
Income is going down versus inflation. And it has been for forty years. 40 years ago that didn’t matter. 10 years ago it didn’t.
But now it does. Now it’s a big problem.
So eventually if you get a job and try to pay your bills you will go broke. You now have to hustle.
There’s lots of ways to hustle. And you can avoid cubicles and fluorescent lights and stupid bosses and backstabbing colleagues.
I’ll give you one solid idea that will work.
There’s a trillion dollars in student loan debt.
Write a 60 page booklet on 20 ways to get rid of your student loan debt. Are there 20 ways? I have no clue. Figure it out. This is the US government we are talking about. You don’t think they have loopholes? I bet there are 200 ways to avoid paying student loan debt. This would be a no-bullshit real valuable book. Do it.
Then advertise it to people age 22-28 living in the United States on Facebook. Even better: target the people who went to the 200 most expensive colleges in the country.
Sell the booklet for $225. You think they can’t afford it? Of course they can. They owe $200,000 in debt. They can afford $225 to get rid of $200,000 in debt.
Sell 1000 of those booklets a year. That’s all.
Oh! I have another idea. CERTIFY people who buy the book and then take another course with you (price: $1000). Now those people can be official “Student loan debt counselors”. Certified by your “Students Avoid Debt” (SAD) Association.
BAM!
Oh wait, but if everyone does that idea then it’s too many people doing it, right?
WRONG. There’s a TRILLION dollars in debt. That’s a big market. And anyway, do it better than anyone else. Why not?
20 years ago I knew four siblings who inherited $20 million each. One was a doctor, another did something on Wall Street. Another was some sort of holistic healer and the fourth was a professional squash player. Their dad started and owned a newspaper empire.
Each one of them said they were going to stick to their careers. They loved what they were doing.
Within two years none of them were doing anything. One “took a year off”. Another “was going to travel”. Another decided to “write a novel”.
Now, 20 years later, I’ve lost track of all of them. They have vanished.
I’m not advocating doing nothing. Some people love doing things. I met one guy this weekend who is really passionate about making really warm wintercoats.
But for me, I love holding my breath underwater.
Actually, I love writing these posts.
And I hope you love reading them.

Life Advice From 18 of the Wealthiest People in History (Interactive Graphic) BY CATHERINE CLIFFORD

Everyone needs a little inspiration from time to time – especially entrepreneurs.
If you're looking for advice on how to rock the business world and live a successful and meaningful life, consider the words of leaders like Bill Gates, Mark Zuckerberg and Michael Dell. They might just have a trick or two up their sleeve.
EBay Deals has compiled an interactive flipbook featuring advice from 18 of the wealthiest and most influential leaders in history.

Some excerpts:
"Your most unhappy customers are your greatest source of learning." – Bill Gates
"Your time is limited, so don't waste it living someone else's life." – Steve Jobs
"Failure is the only opportunity to begin again more intelligently." – Henry Ford
"Done is better than perfect." – Mark Zuckerberg
Take a flip through, and let us know which quotes resonate with you most.

Read more: http://www.entrepreneur.com/article/228239#ixzz2eTsnsykn

"4 Books Every Entrepreneur Must Read" by BY LEWIS HOWES


The greatest lessons you'll ever learn will most likely be from your own experience. But entrepreneurs can also learn a lot from the advice and experiences of others, as long as we allow ourselves to be teachable.
Perhaps you were in grade school the last time you heard this but it's as true today as it was back then: one of the best ways to gain information, inspiration and education is by reading books. As an entrepreneur, I've read a number that I've found invaluable to my professional success.
Consider the following four books your mentors and teachers as they reveal skills and lessons that can possibly shave years off your learning curve, and thousands of dollars from avoidable mistakes:
 
4 Books Every Entrepreneur Must Read

1. First Things First

by Stephen R. Covey (Free Press, reprinted edition January 1996)
As entrepreneurs, we already know our most valuable asset is time, but not every entrepreneur knows how to properly use that time.
At first glance, First Things First may seem like just another productivity book but, as you'll learn, true productivity is not about getting more things done in less time but rather doing things that matter with the time you have.
While many people will recognize Covey for his book The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People, this writing focuses on what I consider to be the most important habit: putting "first things first." Anyone who implements even a fraction of what is outlined in this book should begin to see a dramatic shift in his or her life.
 
4 Books Every Entrepreneur Must Read

2. Built To Sell

by John Warrillow (Portfolio Trade, reprint edition December 2012)
You may have heard the advice "Have an exit strategy" when starting a business. But not many entrepreneurs have considered what it takes to actually sell a business. In Built To Sell, John Warrillow presents a compelling case for entrepreneurs to approach their business from the perspective of selling it one day.
While this may seem counterintuitive for the passionate entrepreneur who loves his or her work and wouldn't want to stop doing it, the real genius of this approach is that it can help readers create more value in their business. Namely, developing a business that is built on systems rather than a legacy business for which the founder has his or her hand in every day-to-day affair. That's just not scalable.
Not only is this book a must-read, but it's also written like a story, which means you should have no problem following along -- unlike other business books which can read more like text books.
 
4 Books Every Entrepreneur Must Read

3. Choose Yourself!

by James Altucher (CreateSpace Independent Publishing Platform, June 2013)
Author James Altucher will most likely have you shaking your head in disbelief when you hear his story. I loved it so much that I had to get him on my podcast, The School of Greatness.
I believe there are two pivotal moments for every entrepreneur. The first is when they choose to become an entrepreneur, and the second is when they take 100 percent responsibility for their success or failure. Choose Yourself! is about that second part -- taking responsibility.
It's not enough to simply want success or to believe in the possibility of success. Instead, every entrepreneur must face the reality that nobody else is responsible for you. Altucher speaks from experience as someone whose story takes so many twists and turns that you may find yourself loving him and becoming frustrated with him at the same time. But ultimately you'll probably arrive at the same conclusion he did -- that we must choose ourselves if we wish to succeed. This book can be is a wake-up call for entrepreneurs who have not taken the reigns of their life and business.
 
4 Books Every Entrepreneur Must Read

4. Mastery

by Robert Greene (Viking Adult, November 2012)
You may recognize Robert Greene from his other books:
The Art of Seduction
The 33 Strategies of War
The 48 Laws of Power
The 50th Law
Greene is no stranger to influencing lives, and exactly why I interviewed him on my podcast. What I enjoyed the most about Greene's book Mastery are the following principals:
The value of apprenticeship: Too many entrepreneurs want to "fake it till they make it" instead of taking the time to develop the necessary skills it takes to succeed with their craft. It also acknowledges the fact that mastery is a process, which should alleviate entrepreneurs from the idea that greatness is either achieved quickly, or not at all.
The myth of mastery being reserved for 'special' people: It's easy to look at a successful entrepreneur on the cover of a magazine, or a TED speaker on YouTube and think that the person has been blessed with luck, financing or superior genes. But everyone walks the same path to "mastery." And that path contains failure, setback and sometimes years of wandering.
The only thing "special" about people who achieve mastery is their decision to stay committed.

I've never escaped from that moment: Girl in napalm photograph that defined the Vietnam War 40 years on

It only took a second for Associated Press photographer Huynh Cong Ut to snap the iconic black-and-white image 40 years ago. 
It communicated the horrors of the Vietnam War in a way words could never describe, helping to end one of the most divisive wars in American history.
But beneath the photo lies a lesser-known story. It's the tale of a dying child brought together by chance with a young photographer. 
Crying children, including 9-year-old Kim Phuc, center, run down Route 1 near Trang Bang, Vietnam after an aerial napalm attack on suspected Viet Cong hiding places as South Vietnamese forces from the 25th Division walk behind them
Crying children, including 9-year-old Kim Phuc, center, run down Route 1 near Trang Bang, Vietnam after an aerial napalm attack on suspected Viet Cong hiding places as South Vietnamese forces from the 25th Division walk behind them

A moment captured in the chaos of war that would serve as both her savior and her curse on a journey to understand life's plan for her.
'I really wanted to escape from that little girl,' says Kim Phuc, now 49. 'But it seems to me that the picture didn't let me go.'
Kim Phuc giving a lecture at Oundle Festival of Literature in Cambridgeshire in 2010
Kim Phuc giving a lecture at Oundle Festival of Literature in Cambridgeshire in 2010
It was June 8, 1972, when Phuc heard the soldier's scream: 'We have to run out of this place! They will bomb here, and we will be dead!'
Seconds later, she saw the tails of yellow and purple smoke bombs curling around the Cao Dai temple where her family had sheltered for three days, as north and south Vietnamese forces fought for control of their village.
The little girl heard a roar overhead and twisted her neck to look up. As the South Vietnamese Skyraider plane grew fatter and louder, it swooped down toward her, dropping canisters like tumbling eggs flipping end over end.
'Ba-boom! Ba-boom!'
The ground rocked. Then the heat of a hundred furnaces exploded as orange flames spit in all directions.
Fire danced up Phuc's left arm. The threads of her cotton clothes evaporated on contact. Trees became angry torches. Searing pain bit through skin and muscle.
'I will be ugly, and I'm not normal anymore,' she thought, as her right hand brushed furiously across her blistering arm. 'People will see me in a different way.'
In shock, she sprinted down Highway 1 behind her older brother. She didn't see the foreign journalists gathered as she ran toward them, screaming.
Then, she lost consciousness.

Phan Thi Kim Phuc, left, is visited by Associated Press photographer Nick Ut at her home in Trang Bang, Vietnam in 1973
Phan Thi Kim Phuc, left, is visited by Associated Press photographer Nick Ut at her home in Trang Bang, Vietnam in 1973

Ut, the 21-year-old Vietnamese photographer who took the picture, drove Phuc to a small hospital. 
There, he was told the child was too far gone to help. But he flashed his American press badge, demanded that doctors treat the girl and left assured that she would not be forgotten.
'I cried when I saw her running,' said Ut, whose older brother was killed on assignment with the AP in the southern Mekong Delta. 'If I don't help her - if something happened and she died - I think I'd kill myself after that.'
Back at the office in what was then U.S.-backed Saigon, he developed his film. When the image of the naked little girl emerged, everyone feared it would be rejected because of the news agency's strict policy against nudity.
But veteran Vietnam photo editor Horst Faas took one look and knew it was a shot made to break the rules. He argued the photo's news value far outweighed any other concerns, and he won.
A copy of the Pulitzer Prize winning photograph by Associated Press photographer Huynh Cong Ut is held at the place he took it 40 years ago in Trang Bang, Tay Ninh province, Vietnam
A copy of the Pulitzer Prize winning photograph by Associated Press photographer Huynh Cong Ut is held at the place he took it 40 years ago in Trang Bang, Tay Ninh province, Vietnam
A couple of days after the image shocked the world, another journalist found out the little girl had somehow survived the attack. Christopher Wain, a correspondent for the British Independent Television Network who had given Phuc water from his canteen and drizzled it down her burning back at the scene, fought to have her transferred to the American-run Barsky unit. It was the only facility in Saigon equipped to deal with her severe injuries.
'I had no idea where I was or what happened to me,' she said. 'I woke up and I was in the hospital with so much pain, and then the nurses were around me. I woke up with a terrible fear.'
Britain's Queen Elizabeth II, right, with Associated Press photographer Nick Ut, left and Phan Thi Kim Phuc, center in London in 2000
Britain's Queen Elizabeth II, right, with Associated Press photographer Nick Ut, left and Phan Thi Kim Phuc, center in London in 2000
Thirty percent of Phuc's tiny body was scorched raw by third-degree burns, though her face somehow remained untouched. Over time, her melted flesh began to heal.
'Every morning at 8 o'clock, the nurses put me in the burn bath to cut all my dead skin off,' she said. 'I just cried and when I could not stand it any longer, I just passed out.'
After multiple skin grafts and surgeries, Phuc was finally allowed to leave, 13 months after the bombing. She had seen Ut's photo, which by then had won the Pulitzer Prize, but she was still unaware of its reach and power.
She just wanted to go home and be a child again.
Phan Thi Kim Phuc embraces Associated Press staff photographer Nick Ut during a reunion in Cuba in 1989
Phan Thi Kim Phuc embraces Associated Press staff photographer Nick Ut during a reunion in Cuba in 1989
For a while, life did go somewhat back to normal. The photo was famous, but Phuc largely remained unknown except to those living in her tiny village near the Cambodian border. Ut and a few other journalists sometimes visited her, but that stopped after northern communist forces seized control of South Vietnam on April 30, 1975, ending the war.
Life under the new regime became tough. Medical treatment and painkillers were expensive and hard to find for the teenager, who still suffered extreme headaches and pain.
She worked hard and was accepted into medical school to pursue her dream of becoming a doctor. But all that ended once the new communist leaders realized the propaganda value of the `napalm girl' in the photo.
She was forced to quit college and return to her home province, where she was trotted out to meet foreign journalists. The visits were monitored and controlled, her words scripted. She smiled and played her role, but the rage inside began to build and consume her.
'I wanted to escape that picture,' she said. 'I got burned by napalm, and I became a victim of war ... but growing up then, I became another kind of victim.'
She turned to Cao Dai, her Vietnamese religion, for answers. But they didn't come.
In this 1992 photo provided by Phan Thi Kim Phuc shows her, top row second from right, and her husband Bui Huy Toan, top row right, with guests during their wedding day in Havana, Cuba
In this 1992 photo provided by Phan Thi Kim Phuc shows her, top row second from right, and her husband Bui Huy Toan, top row right, with guests during their wedding day in Havana, Cuba
'My heart was exactly like a black coffee cup,' she said. 'I wished I died in that attack with my cousin, with my south Vietnamese soldiers. I wish I died at that time so I won't suffer like that anymore ... it was so hard for me to carry all that burden with that hatred, with that anger and bitterness.'
One day, while visiting a library, Phuc found a Bible. For the first time, she started believing her life had a plan.
Then suddenly, once again, the photo that had given her unwanted fame brought opportunity.
She traveled to West Germany in 1982 for medical care with the help of a foreign journalist. Later, Vietnam's prime minister, also touched by her story, made arrangements for her to study in Cuba.
She was finally free from the minders and reporters hounding her at home, but her life was far from normal. Ut, then working at the AP in Los Angeles, traveled to meet her in 1989, but they never had a moment alone. There was no way for him to know she desperately wanted his help again.
While at school, Phuc met a young Vietnamese man. She had never believed anyone would ever want her because of the ugly patchwork of scars that banded across her back and pitted her arm, but Bui Huy Toan seemed to love her more because of them.
In this May 25, 1997 file photo, Phan Thi Kim Phuc holds her son Thomas, 3, in their apartment in Toronto. Her husband, Bui Huy Toan is to the left.
In this May 25, 1997 file photo, Phan Thi Kim Phuc holds her son Thomas, 3, in their apartment in Toronto. Her husband, Bui Huy Toan is to the left.
The two decided to marry in 1992 and honeymoon in Moscow. On the flight back to Cuba, the newlyweds defected during a refueling stop in Canada. She was free.
Phuc contacted Ut to share the news, and he encouraged her to tell her story to the world. But she was done giving interviews and posing for photos.
'I have a husband and a new life and want to be normal like everyone else,' she said.
The media eventually found Phuc living near Toronto, and she decided she needed to take control of her story. A book was written in 1999 and a documentary came out, at last the way she wanted it told. 
She was asked to become a U.N. Goodwill Ambassador to help victims of war. She and Ut have since reunited many times to tell their story, even traveling to London to meet the Queen.
'Today, I'm so happy I helped Kim,' said Ut, who still works for AP and recently returned to Trang Bang village. 'I call her my daughter.'
Huynh Cong Ut visits Kim Phuc's house near the place he took his famous Pulitzer Prize winning photograph of her as a terrified 9-year-old in Trang Bang, Tay Ninh province, Vietnam
Huynh Cong Ut visits Kim Phuc's house near the place he took his famous Pulitzer Prize winning photograph of her as a terrified 9-year-old in Trang Bang, Tay Ninh province, Vietnam


Read more: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2153091/Napalm-girl-photo-Vietnam-War-turns-40.html#ixzz2cW9TfGx6
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