Life is like Mohombi’s song – Bumpy ride! I love this song for the meaning it gives.
At least mine
is. Recent two years of mine has been so interesting that I am still thinking:
“Girl, you should start writing a book, just include lots of colors, because it
is what makes your life so amazing!” Believe me or not, I have done so many
changes, so many thoughts crossed my mind till I became who I am in a place I
am right now, but this is not what I am going to talk about. This post is about
The List. Why the List is so
important? Very simple – it helps thing/s to materialize.
I should admit that for two years I pushed all the guys away,
because I was hurt by one, so I wrote down for myself that any guy will never
hurt me again. At least until I will let one into my heart. But at the
beginning of 2014 I understood that I don’t want to be anymore “go away boys”
girl, so I made a list called “My
King is” with all advantages and disadvantages of him. The list you see below
(in Lithuanian as I am the one) and I have started to feel the way I was
already in the relationship with him. The next thing I did – I took an action
to meet him. I realized I am the one who is not going to parties or clubs, most
of my friends are busy and not matchmakers at all, so what could I do?
One day I was searching on the internet and all of the sudden I saw the site called “blind dating” and I signed for it. As funny as it sounds, it wasn’t the best thing to do, at least not in Lithuania! Anyway, I was happy I took this big step by myself, because as I was observing people at the event, just few came by themselves, others – with friends. Later on my friend came to visit me and she just said: “You know there is an app called ‘Tinder’, which is cool for meeting new people.” Two weeks later I remembered it and I tried it. What’s the result? In one week I managed to go to 5 blind dates, in one day I made 3! Unfortunately the 5th one was the last one – I met my King. I checked my list – he is just the way I wanted. Now, after 3 months, I am on one more challenge – to work on it and keep it right.
So WHAT you should do to get what you WANT?
- FIGURE out what you want;
·
- ANSWER
the question WHY you want it;
· -
LIST
all good's and bad's;
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- FEEL
like you have it;
·
- TAKE
an action and talk about it;
·
- ADORE
what you get or you will loose it.
The next thing I got in the same period – the new flat I had
to find in two weeks. I had a short period to find it, so I made a list of it
(second list in the picture), started talking that I am looking for the flat
and in a few days I had it.
BELIEVE it or not, it works the magic! I encourage you as all
my people around to list all the things you want, to follow the list of actions
I mentioned above and share your results with everybody, because I know you can
have ANYTHING YOU WANT!
YOURS,
Lina